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Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, July 27, 2025


In the way of praying, we all pray asking God to give us different things. We may be asking God to give us healing. We may be asking God to send employment our way. We might be asking God to give us protection from fire or good test results, or for peace in our family, or consolation in time of grief and loss. We might be asking God to help us in a situation of material need. But also, non-material needs. We ask for wisdom. We ask God to give us courage, patience; we ask God to give us forgiveness, and so many other things.


Perhaps this dynamic deepens and develops a little bit when we find ourselves asking God to give others things more than we ask for ourselves. “Lord, bring peace to those nations that are at war. Give protection and safety to persecuted Christians. Help those who are alone, or in hospitals or nursing homes, those who are homebound, those who are suffering. We pray that God will grant to others what they need.”


But then the dynamic of prayer also deepens when we realize prayer is not just about getting something, but that we go to prayer with the intention of giving something to God. We pray in order to give God praise or to give adoration, to give God glory, to give God thanks. We offer to God in our prayer, our devotion, our actions, offering of love. We offer obedience. We offer our works, our joys, our sufferings each day. We offer with our whole heart and sometimes we pray, and we do not ask for a single thing, but simply go to offer to God our heart, to present ourselves to God as a gift. A gift in response to what God has already given to us in an expression of our love to Him and in our gratitude.


The Lord God has a desire for us in prayer that is deeper even than that of forgiving. At the end of today's Gospel, Jesus says, “If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?" So, you say, well, you can say, I am not asking to get the Holy Spirit. But the gift of the Holy Spirit is orientated toward something that is right up on par with God’s desire for us and that is union. God is the Holy Spirit; the Holy Spirit works within us to draw us into deeper and deeper union with God. Closeness to God, conformity to the Lord Jesus in thoughts, in word and deed. The Lord draws us into prayer, not just to give us something or to receive something from us, He draws us into prayer to bind us to Himself, to conform our minds and our hearts to Him, to His mind, to His heart, to His will.


So, the more we pray, the less the getting and the giving matters and the more and more what matters is our conformity to Him. Our desire for God’s will for our life and the whole world – the lives of all people. So, we can ask the question, why pray in an abstract kind of way and sort of get an abstract answer but it also has to come home to us in a vision, where we ask the question of ourselves, why do we pray, why do I pray? Why am I praying right now when I go and sit in the chapel or when I am out walking and praying. Why am I praying? Am I stuck on just asking God for things? I am always asking if I can get this or that. You know, it’s not a bad thing, but my idea is that Lord wants something more.


If I find that when I am always praying asking God for something, might I begin to turn toward offering God something in my heart even more than I ask to receive something? And even beyond those dynamics of asking for and offering, in the hungry reality of my prayer, I realize that God really desires for me union through prayer. The conformity of my will to His.


Some years ago in a homily, I mentioned that the purpose of prayer is not to change God's mind so that He will give us what we need or want, usually ‘want.’ But rather that our hearts would be changed through prayer in order to be able to accept joyfully and gratefully whatever it is that God wills for us. How much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit? How much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him? We want the gift of the Holy Spirit. We want the transformation of our hearts according to the heart of Christ. We want greater and greater conformity to the Lord Jesus, greater and greater conformity to the will of God.


Today in the celebration of Baptism, the majority of you who are here were baptized remember that when we were baptized in our Masses, we receive this gift of the Holy Spirit and it is the beginning of transformation according to the image of Christ. And as we momentarily move into baptism of Silas, we pray for that outpouring of the Holy Spirit on him. Recognizing that what God is doing in him, bringing him new life, drawing him to Himself, God is also doing in each one of us. He wants to do to each one of us. Very much through our prayers each day.

May we have the grace to pray, not just for the things that we need, and not just even to offer ourselves to God but to also to recognize that the Lord is goodness and love is really drawing us into union with Himself.

 

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Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, July 20, 2025


This well-known Gospel passage is not primarily about choosing how you spend your time, whether in prayer or work or some other activity. Jesus is not pitting prayer against work. Sometimes this message has been used to argue that Jesus is promoting the contemplative life over a life of action. But then the Martha’s in this room always object. They say, “If we just sat around praying all day, nothing would ever get done.’ And okay, they have a point. And although prayer and contemplation are certainly essential to the Christian life, Jesus did indeed send His disciples out into the world to work, to work for the building of the kingdom of God, and Jesus Himself worked. So, prayer and work or action do not mean to be considered as enemies.


Maybe the question is not about how we spend our time exactly. Maybe ‘choosing the better part’ is not necessarily choosing contemplation over action or choosing action over contemplation. Maybe that better part is available to us no matter whether we are working or praying or doing some other activity. And actually, I think we know this intuitively. If we're in the midst of a time of prayer, we know that we can choose to go along with moments of daydreaming or distraction, or we can choose the better part and bring ourselves back to focusing on the Lord. We know that if we're in the midst of a time of work or activity, we can choose to be present and mindful of God, which is the better part, or we can choose in some way to set it aside and say, ‘God, I'm going to do this my own way.’ Kind of like taking the Lord and putting Him on a shelf for a little bit. ‘I love you, Lord, but right now I have to take care of this other thing.  So, you just be over there. And if you would be quiet, I wouldn't mind.”


 Jesus says in John 15, "Abide in me, and I in you.” Abide in me, and I in you. Choosing the better part means that no matter what we're doing, whether praying or working or doing some other activity, we abide in Jesus. We remain in Him. We live from that place of the union with Him. It means we don't set Jesus aside in any way, but remain in Him, abide in Him, and be present to Him.


In the Gospel, Mary is fully present to Jesus. And I think the fact that she is not working in that moment is not really the point. It is not a critical part of this account. She is present. She is sitting at the feet of Jesus listening to him. Her sister, Martha, is busy with the serving but apparently, while she is working, she's not focusing on serving out of love - love for Jesus and love for her sister. She seems to be focused on herself, and she is focused on the unfairness of having to do all the work herself without having any help from her sister.


How might the conversation have gone differently had Martha remained present to Jesus in her heart even while she was working? She was mindful that she was doing this work out of love. I suspect things may have gone differently. To abide in Jesus, to remain in Jesus, is to choose the better part. And it requires a lot of practice because we know, I think, the temptation, when we have other things to do is to set Jesus aside and we create this division between our spiritual life and the rest of life. But Jesus actually wants us to remain in Him no matter what we are doing. And there are many ways we can work on that. We can take up maybe different devotions that can be prayed while we're working or doing other things. We can have sacred music playing in the background or something while we're doing other things. We can just simply try to remind ourselves more and more frequently that the Lord is with us, the unseen guest in every conversation, or at every meal, in every place we go, that He is there, He is present. Even just remembering that He is present helps us to be present to Him. And of course, this Sacraments are a tremendous gift in helping us to abide in Jesus to remain in Him. The sacrament of Reconciliation, Confession, helps us to return to Him perhaps after we have wandered a bit. After we recognize we haven't always been abiding in Him. Of course, the gift of the Holy Eucharist is Jesus' gift of abiding with us in which He invites us also to abide in Him in a special way. Even spending time with Him in Adoration, whether the host is exposed on the altar or reposed in the Tabernacle or receiving Jesus in the Eucharist, there is that beautiful intimate invitation: “Abide in me, and I abide in you.”


 It is good to reflect on how in the living of our mission of life, we abide in the Lord. For where are those places in life where we tend towards setting Jesus aside? Have we created somehow a dichotomy in our mind or in our living between spiritual life and the rest of life? Can we bring those together and abiding in Jesus, choose the better part.





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Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, July 13, 2025


There are a lot of people who move to this area with the explicit intention of getting away from having neighbors. There's nothing wrong with enjoying solitude. Peace and quiet is “A-okay.” You know we don't have to always be caught up in a flurry of activity with a bunch of other people. But if the attitude is “I just don't want to have to deal with other people,” it is not very compatible with being a Christian. And we have to guard against that kind of movement of the heart. For the Commandment is to love our neighbor, not despise or avoid them, and love of neighbor is non-negotiable. It is not ‘take or leave it,’ or ‘if you can, fit it in and that's great.’ Love of neighbor is an indispensable part of the Christian life. Like the scholar of the Law in today’s Gospel, Christian’s today are still asking themselves the question: "Who is my neighbor? For whom am I responsible? For whom am I supposed to care?”


We tend, I think, sometimes to sort of draw a circle in the ground around us, and properly speaking, keep the neighbors on the inside of that circle because everyone outside of the circle is not my problem. Or not my concern. So, I will take care of the people that are inside my circle, but the others, they are not welcome. It is interesting because people take a different approach to this separation. Some will say, “Well, inside of that circle of course are my family, my children, my brothers and sisters, my grandchildren, my parents, perhaps. Of course, I have the responsibility to take care of them; they are certainly my neighbor – I will associate with them and I don’t mind associating with them. But I am not going to talk to that person banging on the street or who has the cardboard sign. I am not going to go out and associate with people that aren't close to me or who I don't know, a stranger. I am not responsible, I can't be responsible for everyone, after all. You can't be expected to care for everyone in the world.” And then there are others who approach it this way. They say: “Well, I will be happy to send the check to Zimbabwe, send the check to Feed the Hungry. I will be happy to donate to a mission that is providing healthcare for those in can't afford it in Third World countries and all of that. But I am not going to talk to my brother-in-law! That guy, he crossed me one too many times. Or the woman across the street, or someone whose politics oppose mine. Or ‘fill in’ the blank.”


We tend to think of ‘neighbor’ as someone we have a particular affiliation with - family, coworker, a physical neighbor, someone who has common interests, even if we don't know them, they are ‘on our team’, so to speak. Maybe we think of the neighbor as someone who's easy to be around, someone we are comfortable with, someone who doesn't ask too much of us. But the parable in the Gospel today does not indicate that there was any prior connection for affiliation between the Samaritan and the robber’s victim. They were strangers. They were strangers. And yet, the Samaritan cared. So, the Lord Jesus invites us to expand our circle. Maybe not to draw that circle quite so solidly or firmly in the ground around us. It has something to do with the way that we perceive other people.


Look at the way the Samaritan perceived the robber's victim. By the way, the robber's victim represents us. The robber's victim does not principally represent that someone we are called to serve. We are the robbers' victim. We are the ones who are broken, and wounded, and sinful, and poor, and weak, lying on the side of the road. And the good Samaritan is Jesus who comes to our help. Not because of our deserving it or earning it, but out of complete compassion and love for us. Jesus comes. He is the Samaritan. He yields and strengthens and saves us. So, He must look at us as being worth saving. And that's how we're invited to look at others.


The Commandment is: Love your neighbor as yourself. That does not mean love your neighbor the same amount, so to speak, as you love yourself. It is something deeper than that. It speaks of a certain kind of union that we have with other people. Certainly, we are united in the body of Christ – we are all baptized, we have a certain connection to one another. We belong to one another; we belong to the same body. But even beyond that, we belong to the human family. So, I look upon every other person then, as somehow, even if in a small way, I look upon every other person as an extension of myself. And so, when I encounter a neighbor, when I encounter another human being, I care for them as I would care for myself. We belong to each other. Even if we are total strangers, we belong to each other. We have responsibility for each other. That's a new way of looking at things, perhaps. But it seems to be the way that the Samaritan looks upon the robber's victim. The priest and the Levite see the robber's victim and cross to the other side: “Not my problem. I do not know that person. I better not get involved here.” But the Samaritan sees the wounded man and perhaps part of all of this is the recognition that we're not just supposed to look out and see who is my neighbor, but realize that other people are also looking to us and asking the question, “Is that my neighbor?” “Is that person going to treat me the way the good Samaritan treated the robber's victim?”


So today, we might ask for the grace to see everyone who crosses our path as a neighbor that we might have a greater sense of care and responsibility for each other, not pushing others away, ignoring others, but ask that God with soften the hardness of our hearts that we might follow the example of Jesus the Good Samaritan, and lay down our life for others, so that they may live.



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Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, July 6, 2025


I find myself as time goes on loving the Church more and more. It's not because of all of the beautiful structures, the beautiful churches I've seen, or because of the beautiful music, liturgy, and the tradition of the Church, but for the love of God that inspires all of those, and so much else. And also, just coming to know the people of God, not only in their gratefulness, but in every, in all of the moments of life - their devotion, their faithfulness, their perseverance, also their dreams and struggles and the weaknesses, all that goes together to make a Christian life. I have a priest friend who jokingly says, "I love the faith. It's the faithful I can't stand."

And sometimes people do want to just have that relationship with God with no regard for the Church. There are many who regard the Church with sort of an attitude of tolerance at best. They put up with these other people, but the main thing is just that they have their own relationship with God. There are some who despise the Church, perhaps out of misunderstanding, perhaps out of a sense of self-righteousness. A judgment that everyone else in the Church is somehow off base. Some despise the structures or the hierarchy of the Church and the leaders. Some despise their fellow lay people. They don't like this or that thing about the Church. Sometimes people stand in judgment of the Church or reject Her for the imperfections of Her members.


But we have got to love the Church. We've got to love the Church. Because we cannot despise what Jesus loves so dearly. Jesus has taken the Church to Himself, united the Church to Himself. The Church is His Body; the Church is his Bride. The Church is His Beloved. So, we must love the Church - warts and all. We must love the Church.


I mentioned a couple of Sundays ago when we see Jerusalem mentioned in Scriptures, especially in the Old Testament, Jerusalem is a prefigurement of the Church. So, what if we read again todays first reading with that in mind?

“Rejoice with the Church and be glad because of her, all you who love her; exalt, exalt, with her, all you who were mourning over her!” What if I regard the Church really as a beloved mother who nourishes us like a mother nourishes her child? Comforts her child. As nurslings, you shall be carried her arms and fondled in her lap; as a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; in the Church, you shall find your comfort.”

 Do we rejoice in the Church? How do we love the Church? Do we regard the Church truly as our mother? The trouble, I think, with standing judgment of the Church or despising the Church, or just tolerating the church, or we being leery of the Church - I'm not saying we should be uncritical - but if we have this attitude toward the Church, it's very easy then to stay at the margin of the Church. To stay at the edge, kind of looking in and saying “Well, I really don’t want to be fully associated with those sinners.” No. Or if I don't want to be associated with those who don't think the same way and so forth and so on. We can easily put ourselves at the edge of the Church instead of making us the heart of the Church. And we want to be in the heart of the Church and to share the mission of the Church.


In the Gospel we hear about these seventy-two whom Jesus sends in ahead of Him to prepare His way to announce His coming. They must have something more than a personal relationship to Jesus to be able to go at out and to announce Jesus, and to get people, to help them to prepare their hearts, to receive Him, that they would love them too. They came back rejoicing. They're participating in the mission of Jesus to save the world. If we are not in the heart of the Church, if we find ourselves on the periphery of the margin of the Church, we are not very likely to participate in that mission. Going out and preparing the way for the Lord and preaching the Gospel and making Him known.

We have to love the Church. We have to love the Church and be in the heart of the Church. What is our attitude today toward the Church, to Her structures, Her traditions, Her members, Her leaders? Do we struggle with the temptation to be at the edge or the margin or are we ready to really be in the heart of the Church to recognize that we each have some sort of role in the announcement of the Gospel. Jesus says, “The harvest is abundant, but the laborers are few.” The harvest truly is abundant today - right now in our neighborhood, in our towns, in our county. The harvest is rich, the harvest is abundant, but the laborers are few.


God give us the grace today to love the Church more and more; loving Christ and His Church, His body, and may we have the grace to recognize that we, like the seventy-two, are sent into the world to bring all people to Christ.



 

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Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul, June 30, 2025


Summary:

We hear different things about the weaknesses of these saints, and that's fine. It is good to mention that, too, I guess, but it seems like the message that is communicated then is: “Well, if these great Saints have a past as sinners, then there is hope for all of us, too. Maybe we are not disqualified from Heaven because we are still broken and weak and sinful.”


But that isn’t the question. There is no question of whether we qualified to be disciples of Jesus. Everyone is qualified to be a disciple of Jesus. The question is are we open to God? Are we open? Before God there are only two ways we can be. There are only two ways – open or closed. So, you see in the lives of Saint Peter and Saint Paul perhaps not just a onetime changing from closed to open. Even though Saint Paul’s conversion was a profoundly transformative event, we also see in it an ongoing journey of conversion. Saint Peter didn’t just get it right one time and keep on getting it right. As we all do, these things stumble – they have to struggle to become more and more open to God and less and less closed. 


This is the journey of conversion. This is the description of pretty much all the Saints. They are open to God. Open to God. And for those who underwent conversion over the course of their lives, it was a journey of becoming more and more open. I think in our own human experience it is fairly easy for us to identify these certain moments whether we are open to God or are closed. For example, even in our thought life. How do I think of my neighbor? Am I open to God in that, or am I closed to God in that? How do I think of my family? Maybe some of the members of my family that I am in a struggle with? How do I think of public figures? How do I think of the Church? How do I think of myself even? Am I open to God in the way I think of myself? How do I think of God? 


In our words, how do we speak of our neighbor? How do we speak of our family members? How do we speak of public figures? What is our conversation like? It doesn't mean we are always explicitly speaking about God, we need to have conversations about other things as well, obviously. But in any conversations, are we open God? Is the conversation open to God or is it closed? In our deeds, again, are we open to God? We know whether we are serving God or serving ourselves. We know whether we are open or closed.


I think this is actually something of a useful tool for us to stow in our spiritual toolbox. Just a simple question. Am I open or closed? What if in the course of a conversation that little question flickered through our mind? Do I come open to God in this? Even in the privacy of our home, in the quiet of prayer, perhaps, or thinking about different things, the thought comes mind - am I open to God right now, or am I closed. Could I be more open?

Honestly, we all have to answer the question about openness and or being closed. I am saying that sometimes we are open and sometimes we're closed. None of us is perfectly open all the time. I don't think any of us is all the way closed all the time, either. Here you are, celebrating Mass – that is an example of openness. It is one thing to have a life of prayer, to do good works and to love your families and serve God the way that you love those around you. So, there's clearly openness. But we want to become more and more open to praying each day:


Jesus, I open my heart to you. Help me to open my heart, teach me to open my heart. Give me the grace to open my heart. Help me to receive whatever it is that you wish to pour out to me. Help me not to be closed, help me not to be stuck inside my own thoughts and reasoning, my own understanding. Help me not to be closed in on myself and what I want and my agendas. But help me to be open to you O God.

Just this simple question: Am I open or am I closed can help us so much in our spiritual life. And through the intersession of Saints.


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The Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ, June 22, 2025


Summary:


I am sure I have shared before about what a central role the Eucharist played in my vocation to priesthood, but also just in my own spiritual development as a young person. Jesus in the Eucharist captured my heart from the time I was just a little boy. The truth of Jesus' real presence in this Holy Sacrament entrusted itself on my soul in such a way that I simply accepted it as an undeniable fact. And I can’t really think of a time that ever fully doubted the presence of Jesus in the Eucharist and by God's grace, I hope to remain faithful all the days of my life. 


But also, I found that through the Eucharist, God is always with me. You know, God is present everywhere, we know that by faith. But He is present in a very specific and special way in the Sacrament of Eucharist. And when I encounter Jesus in the Eucharist, I experience His abiding presence. He has made a promise to never abandon us. His promise “I am with you always.” And there's a sense there that He is always available to me. I can run to Him whenever I need him for whatever I want.

People ask me, don't you get lowly as a priest? I very seldom feel alone. I have the capacity for solitude, but I very seldom feel lonely. And even if those feelings creep up, I go straight to the Lord and I know that He is present, and He is there to give me His company and much consolation. The Sacrament of the Eucharist is the Sacrament of Divine love. In the Eucharist we have the very love of God Incarnate and meditating on that Mystery, receiving that Mystery in Holy Communion, reminds me of what I am called to as well. What we are all called to do - imitate the very love of Jesus Christ Himself, and in that Sacrament always pouring out the love of His heart for me, for all of us. 


I can say there's a lot of different effects that the Eucharist has had on my life. One of them is that is ongoing is that I find I have a deeper desire to receive the Sacrament worthily. So, one of my greatest anxieties as a priest has been surrounding my participation in unworthy Holy Communions. Obviously, I distribute a lot of hosts. I mean, if I celebrated 10,000 Masses, I don't know how many Holy Communions I have given. And I worry sometimes, what will be my burden and responsibility for other people to receive Holy Communion worthily or not. Aside from situations where grave public scandal would result from my giving Communion to someone, I sort of settled on the reality or truth that the responsibility for ascertaining one’s worthiness to receive Holy Communion lies with the recipient, and not with me. I am not Padre Pio – I don’t read your soul. I learned recently that in the Coptic tradition, the priest, after washing his hands before the Eucharistic prayer, shakes his fingers out in front of the people to signify that he is not responsible for any unworthy Communions. The responsibility is yours to receive Holy Communion worthily. This is not to say, you just open up the flood gates and give Communion out willy nilly. No. The Sacrament is celebrated and received on God's terms, not on ours so we all have to have the humility to submit ourselves to what God has revealed concerning the Sacrament – through the Scriptures and through Tradition. We are supposed to conform ourselves to Christ, not expect Him to conform Himself to our plans.


In this sacred life, today, with a special feast, perhaps we can simply ask the Lord to help us place Him more and more at the center, especially to place His Eucharistic presence more solidly, more totally, at the center of our life so that when we receive the Eucharistic it is folded into the fabric of our being, and we couldn't imagine living without that. Lord Jesus, help us to open our hearts to You and to receive You with total love and to allow You to accomplish Your purposes in our life. 








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